the catalyst to change led by president clinton, obviously. i understand what it is like to be a single parent. when my wife and daughter died and my sue sons were gravely injured, i understand what it is like as a parent to wonder if your kid is going to make it. i understand what it is like to sit around the table with a father who says, i have to leave. when we get enough money, we'll bring you down. i understand what it is like. i am much better off than most americans now. i get a good salary in the united states senate. i have a good house. it is a total investment that i have. the notion that somehow because i'm a man i don't know what it is like to raise two children alone. i know what it is like to have a child you are not sure is going to make it. i understand. i understand. as well, with all due respect, as the governor or anyone else, what it is like for those people sitting around that kitchen table. guess what, they are looking for help. they are not looking for more of the same. >> governor, people aren't looking for more of the